You Don’t Have to Do This Alone: Finding Your Community in the Service Dog Journey

By Brenda Renou | Life With Service Dogs When I started this journey, I was alone in it in ways I didn't fully recognize at the time. I had determination. I had research. I had Belle, who was learning alongside me with a patience and dedication that still humbles me when I think about it....

Is Food Allergen Alert Completely Trainable? An Honest Answer

What is genuinely possible? Let's start with the good news, because it's real. Dogs can be taught to detect the scent of a specific allergen. This isn't wishful thinking. The capability is real. That's the part that gives people hope, but it's only half the picture.

Helping Family and Friends Understand Your Service Dog

By Brenda Renou | Life With Service Dogs Of all the challenges that come with having a service dog, some of the most emotionally complicated ones don't happen in public with strangers. They happen at home, at family gatherings, at dinner with friends, with the people who love you most and still somehow make things...

When Your Employer Says Yes but the Building Says No: Service Dogs, Work, and a Landlord’s Lease

Your employer is on board with your service dog, no hesitation, happy to make it work. And then it stalls, because the company doesn't own the building. The property owner's lease says no dogs allowed, service dogs included, and suddenly everyone is looking at each other wondering who gets to decide.

Service Dogs in Housing: What Your Landlord Can and Cannot Ask

A service dog is not a pet under federal law. No-pets policies do not apply.

What to Bring to Work for Your Service Dog or SDIT

By Brenda Renou | Life With Service Dogs Disclaimer: This article is general information, not legal advice, and I am not an attorney. Bringing a service dog or a service dog in training to your workplace is usually handled as a reasonable accommodation under the ADA's employment rules, and the specifics depend on your employer,...

When You Feel Like Quitting: How to Stay Consistent When Training Gets Hard

By Brenda Renou | Life With Service Dogs At some point in the owner-training journey, almost everyone hits a wall. It doesn't always announce itself dramatically. Sometimes it's a slow erosion with a few skipped sessions here, a stretch of minimal progress there, or a quiet voice in the back of your mind starting to...

My Disabilities Are Part of My Story, Not the Whole Book

Most people who see me out with my service dog can't imagine why I'd need one. Most days, there's nothing to see. That's the thing about invisible disabilities, and it's part of why I wrote this. But this post ended up being about so much more than that. It's about the woman I was before anyone handed me a label, and the one I became after. It's about advocacy, and building Paws with Purpose Coaching. And it's about Belle. Belle was my first service dog. I trained her myself, from the ground up, with no map and no one to ask. She changed the entire direction of my life, and I lost her last November. Almost everything I do now traces back to her. I wrote this for anyone who's ever been reduced to the cover of their own book. Your diagnosis is a chapter. Your hardest year is a chapter. But you hold the pen, and there are so many more pages left to fill.

So You Want to Raise a Therapy Dog: Training Your Puppy for the Work

By Brenda Renou | Life With Service Dogs Disclaimer: This article is general information, not legal or veterinary advice. Therapy dogs, service dogs, and emotional support animals are three different things, with different training and different rights. Therapy dogs do not have the public access that service dogs have under the ADA. Health and vaccination...

Can an Adult Support Home Say No to My Emotional Support Dog?

By Brenda Renou | Life With Service Dogs Disclaimer: This article is general information, not legal advice, and I am not an attorney. Assistance animal law involves the Fair Housing Act, Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act, and in some cases the Americans with Disabilities Act, and how those laws apply depends on the specific...

The First Tasks Your Service Dog Should Learn And Why They Matter

By Brenda Renou | Life With Service Dogs One of the most common questions I get from people starting the owner-training journey is this: "I know my dog needs to learn tasks, but where do I actually begin?" It's a fair question, and the answer is more nuanced than most people expect. The right starting...

Free for everyone: the Paws with Purpose Companion App

This FREE app is available to everyone. However, coaching members get full access to everything.

What I Wish I’d Known Before I Started Owner-Training My Service Dog

By Brenda Renou | Life With Service Dogs I've been doing this long enough now to have perspective I simply didn't have at the beginning. Three service dogs. Years of training, advocating, grieving, celebrating, and starting over. Hundreds of conversations with people at every stage of this journey. And when I look back at the...

A Personal Invitation From Me to You

By Brenda Renou | Life With Service Dogs I want to step outside the usual format of this blog for a moment and talk to you directly. Not about a training concept or a legal right or a strategy for the hard days. Just person to person, about why I built this program and what...

Owner-Training vs. Program Dogs: An Honest Comparison Nobody Gives You

By Brenda Renou | Life With Service Dogs When I first started looking into service dogs, I did what most people do. I searched for programs. I made calls. I sent emails. I researched organizations across the country hoping to find one that trained dogs for my specific type of disability. I came up empty...